Remembering bad luck

We think we run into bad luck more often than we actually do because we don’t remember all the times we run into good luck.

It all evens out in the long run.

The important thing is to take any bad luck (or good luck for that matter) in our stride and keep plugging away.

Setbacks and responses

I had a setback on a project recently.

I was hoping for an outcome. It didn’t pan out.

I remember the moment I realized it was not going to pan out. I spent a minute thinking about the work that lay ahead. I then muttered “you never know if a good day is a good day” to myself and went right back to work.

There was no disappointment or sadness. The moment was memorable for the absence of any negativity.

Over the years, I’ve shared moments along these lines. Where there was extreme disappoint a decade ago, there’s more equanimity. Some of that is thanks to perspective from years of writing here. Some of it is thanks to being in a more privileged place. And, some of it is thanks to the recent exploration of stoic philosophy.

Until I read the works of the stoics, I assumed that removing negative reactions would mean removing the positive as well. But, the stoics opened my eyes to another possibility – removing the negative stuff while keeping the joy.

Moments like this make me believe that it is possible.

That belief will make change and, thus, learning possible.

Giving someone what you feel you need

An idea that I find helpful every time I remember to put it to practice – give someone what you feel you need.

It may be appreciation. A smile. A hug. Some love. Or some gratitude.

If you’re feeling in need of it, give it to someone else.

It helps remind us to get over ourselves and realize that we all are fighting different battles.

And that a little bit of kindness can often go a long way.

Moving fast by moving slow

When it comes to working effectively with a new group of people, the best way to move fast is often to move slow.

Time invested in getting relationships and trust in place almost always results in higher velocity in the long run. Shortcutting that, on the other hand, can result in all kinds of pain.

One of those situations where slow is fast and fast is slow.

Self-perception and the stories we tell

Our self-perception is a result of the stories we tell others and ourselves about ourselves. The anecdotes, words, and emotions we choose when we talk about and to ourselves shape these stories.

It is helpful to examine these stories from time to time to understand the impact they’re having.

As part of this process, it helps to prune the stories that aren’t helping and replace them with constructive stories.

These stories are all invented anyway.

Best to invent stuff that is helpful.

Simpler takeaways and simple messages

Our 5 year old dismissed a new source of bedtime stories as boring recently.

As we had barely tried this out, I thought it was an unfair assessment. So, I shared what I would be a wise quote for the ages. “I don’t think that’s right. Just because you call something stupid doesn’t make it stupid. It is possible that the thing itself is smart and you are stupid because you don’t understand it.”

Our 3.5 year old was listening to this and asked the question that was clearly top of mind for both of them – “Are you calling her stupid?”

There was no coming back from that.

I took away a couple of communication lessons from the experience.

First, know your audience and make sure you deliver a message they understand.

Second, remember that the audience will take away a salient point or two from what you communicate. Be mindful of what that might be.

Third, keep it simple when you can and as often as you can.

That IPCC report

My posts from yesterday and the day before turned out to be perfect in setting the stage for today’s post.

If you have an extra 3 minutes today, I would recommend the headline statements from the IPCC’s report. And, yes, I’d recommend reading this before reading a summary elsewhere :-).

It is a synthesis of 14,000 studies on climate change by over 750 scientists. If you have an extra 10 minutes, skim through the charts in the 42 page summary or see one of the many articles summarizing the work (like this one on ArsTechnica).

We’ve known about this for a while now. What is new is the level of confidence in the extent of the challenge we face and the path forward.

We’ll soon need to talk about possible solutions and things we can do on an individual level. But, the first step might just be to sit with this incredible piece of work for a bit, talk about it with people we work with and care about, and develop a shared understanding of the task that lies ahead.

PS: I titled the post “That IPCC report” because I’m sure it is how we’ll remember this report. It is seminal.

Cover art of the new report.

The Gabon experiment

Gabon is a unique country. It is one of only 11 countries on the planet to be termed an HFLD or “High Forest Low Deforestation.” 88% of the country is a tropical rainforest with an average deforestation rate of less than 0.1% in the past 30 years.

Image by jbdodane via Flickr 

These rainforests are an incredible source of biodiversity. But, beyond that, they’re also critical to rainfall across Africa.

The challenge ahead is maintaining that low deforestation rate. Gabon managed that with urbanization supported by oil exports. But, with oil reserves running low, the country needs a way out of it.

Given how important its forests are to all of Africa, Gabon is looking to diversify its economy without disturbing its forests. So, they’re testing a new “results based emission reduction payment” as part of the Central African Forest Initiative. In 2019, Norway committed to pay $150M to Gabon to protect its forests.

As long as Gabon continues to be Carbon Dioxide positive – they currently absorb 100 million tons above their annual emissions – they would qualify for these payments (more here).

It received its first $17M payment this year.

It’s likely not enough. But, it is a start and it was heartening to see this.

I hope many other countries follow Norway’s lead.

Belief systems

I first wrote about COVID-19 on Mar 1, 2020. It was at a time when coverage on the Coronavirus was still a fringe phenomenon. A combination of an insufficient healthcare system, the politicization of everything, and a leader who didn’t believe in science led me to believe (and share) that the US would be among the most dangerous places on the planet.

Every once a while, I make a prediction based on current data that I hope won’t be true. This is the case with every post I write on the climate crisis. That was one of them.

We now have just over 614,000 deaths reported. Assuming reports are understated by ~40%, we’ve probably crossed the 1M mark. Or ~700,000 deaths per year. As a comparison, the deadliest war in the last 100 years (World War II) led to ~100,000 deaths per year. In terms of the % of population, the World War II casualty list impacted 0.07% of the US population. The equivalent number for COVID-19 is ~0.2% or 3x.

It has been a brutal 18 months.

It could have been a lot worse if it weren’t for the vaccines. When the vaccines came, it looked like the end of the pandemic might be near.

Why, then, are we seemingly back to where we began with the Delta variant?

COVID-19 has been a fascinating exposition of human nature. One such idea I’ve been thinking about is belief systems.

So, what are belief systems? They are an all-or-nothing set of beliefs that people in our tribe believe. The combination of our desire to belong and the internet’s ability to isolate us into our tribes has made it easier than ever for us to find a belief system and then ensure we dig our heels in.

For example, here are a few statements related to the pandemic.

(1) The Trump administration did a great job betting on vaccine technology.

(2) The Biden administration followed up with a nearly world-class rollout.

(3) The vaccines have been incredibly effective in preventing deaths even with the mutation / Delta variant (sadly, infections will be on the up). Outside of ~5M folks who are immunocompromised, there’s a reason these vaccines are being strongly recommended. The force is strong on these.


(4) COVID-19 was likely a result of a lab leak from Wuhan Institute of Virology. China has understandably blocked any real investigation into the matter (because that’s what China does). However, our collective intellectual curiosity on why it happened and what we can learn – perhaps the most significant event in the past century – has been a disgrace.

(5) The Delta disaster, sadly, is a crisis affecting the unvaccinated. I thought this San Diego Daily Tribune’s chart was simple and effective. We need more of these sorts of visualizations.

(6) Misinformation on said vaccines is often a result of a lack of understanding of ratios and our proclivity to find comfort in anecdotes over data. When over 2.75 billion people have been vaccinated, there are going to be many such anecdotes. In the US for example, 125000 vaccinated folks still came down with COVID-19. Even at 0.8%, we’re looking at large numbers. Anecdotes are plentiful.

(7) As trial data is only limited to the last year, we will never know the long term impact of these vaccines. We have reasons to believe the side effects, if any, are minimal. We do need to weigh this possibility vs. getting COVID-19.

(8) The Delta variant has changed the nature of the pandemic for children. Hospitalizations are trending up significantly. A vaccine for children was not urgent a few months ago. That has changed.


(9) It is frustrating to see pharmaceutical companies focused on the Booster. While the booster is important in the long run, it is far more important to get vaccines in the hands of countries that don’t have them. If not, the risk of the next mutated variant keeps going up.

Depending on the belief system, you will find groups that agree with some of these and vehemently disagree with the rest. How could you, for example, give the Trump administration any credit if you believe in vaccines? Or, how could you believe in vaccines and scientists if you agree COVID-19 was the result of a lab leak? And so on.

There are all sorts of definition problems at play of course. For example, the folks who decry scientists and use that to decry science don’t understand science (this post is a fascinating exposition into the topic if you’re interested).

But, at the heart of this all is the the power of belief systems.

I’ve shared a few times that COVID-19 is a warm-up act compared to the likely impact of climate change. And, if we will have learnt anything from this pandemic when this is likely behind us in ~2 years, (and I hope we will have), it is the importance of understanding the importance of belief systems in enabling change.

Sharing the gold

Qatar’s Mutaz Essa Barshim and Italy’s Gianmarco Tamberi are among the top high jumpers on the planet. They both recovered from bad injuries to compete in the Tokyo Olympic games.

In the finals, they cleared an impressive 2.37m each. It was now time for a “jump off.” This meant they would go head-to-head one jump after another – till somebody lost.

That’s when Barshim asks the referee – “Can we both have golds?”

“It is possible” – the referee responds

The two look at each other, shake hands, give each other hugs, and celebrate.

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It is a beautiful moment. A moment where they chose to go for a “win-win.” No egos involved – just a wonderful celebration of mutual respect and a reminder of what matters.

You can watch the exchange here – starts at 4:00. It is wonderful.