I was reminded again recently that there is no “right” decision.
There is just a right decision for us given the context at this point of time.
And, ultimately, if we’ve done the research to understand the context, sought varying input to give ourselves perspective, thoughtfully considered the timing, and done the work to understand ourselves, no one will know better than us as to what that decision should be.
They might know the right decision for them. But they’ll never know the right decision for us.