There is no such thing as..

a ‘self made’ person..

We are all what we are thanks to many many people who have influenced us over the course of our lives. Parents, teachers, friends, mentors and the like.. 
The quicker we acknowledge this, the farther we go.. :)

When the going gets tough..

and there seem to be a whole muddle of things to do, break things down to simple simple steps..

firstly, analyze what the whole tension is about anyway.. a few things generally get chopped off.. and then calm down..and start execution! :)