It is important to understand how other people work..

Some people are-

readers – those who assimilate when things are written out, drawn out. Visual people..

listeners – those who assimilate when things are spoken.

We are only one among the 2. It is important to realize this and make the most of this.. because it is easy to conclude people are stupid but its often these characteristics that determines whether a person is learning.. or not!

The Essence of the Bhagavad Gita..

Whatever has happened, has happened for good.
Whatever is happening, is happening for good.
Whatever is going to happen, it will be for good.
What have you lost for which you cry?
What did you bring with you, which you have lost?
What did you produce, which has been destroyed?
You did not bring anything when you were born.
Whatever you have, you have received from Him.
Whatever you will give, you will give to Him.
You came empty handed and you will go the same way.

Change is the rule of nature.. :)