If you have experience going to the gym (I did – for 3 months! And somehow the post gym muscles are always thought to have been photoshopped.. haha), then the trainers typically insist on taking lots of time in between work outs.
Month: December 2010
‘Don’t let yesterday use up too much of today.’
Great advice! :) Now, to remember this every morning.. :)
The plunge
The night was cold.
‘You can judge your age by the amount of pain you feel when you come in contact with a new idea.’ – John Nuveen.
Great week ahead! Thanks Miriam, for this one. :)
On Empowerment
Managing our leaders
From an Article at HBR:
1) Sun-like leaders. The quintessential sun-like leader is an entrepreneur, one who takes the lead in everything, just as the sun illuminates everything. Their subordinates get close supervision. These hands-on leaders sometimes feel like if they’re not involved, they’ve lost control — as their follower, you need to be aware of this sense of insecurity. When working with such a leader, be sympathetic. Include him in work where he can demonstrate his ability — he wants to be useful, so give him something to do! Invite him to get involved — he will do so anyway, and bringing him in increases the odds that he’ll support your work. Make your own job easier by leveraging his experience and his insights with customers and others.
2) Moon-like leaders. The moon reflects the light of the sun; a moon-like leader reflects the light of his employees. He is more open-minded and trusting of his people. Only when you lose your way — just like someone walking a dark road at night — would he step forward to shed light on what he thinks you should do. This kind of leadership gives employees room for development. However, trust between the follower and the leader does require timely maintenance; when the leader does step forward, be willing to answer questions and open your project up for inspection.
3) Star-like leaders. Leaders of this type will only indicate a direction, like the North Star. Their teams, however, still need a light source, so star-like leaders need followers who can step up and light the way for others. Only those leaders with great wisdom have the confidence to be star-like. Their empowerment shows high recognition for your capabilities. This kind of leadership only works when the leader has built a capable team that can function with minimal supervision. As a follower to this kind of leader, you’ve got a great platform, but you have to demonstrate that you deserve the trust you’ve been given.
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Now, are we behaving in accordance to our boss’ style? And what about us – what kind of leaders are we?
For myself, I know I’m the ‘Sun-like’ leader who likes getting involved in everything and definitely don’t have the wisdom (not yet atleast!) to be a ‘Star-like’ leader. Having said that, for the first time, I’m seeing a ‘Star-like’ leader in action and I do aspire to be the same, someday.
What about you? What’s your boss’ style? And yours, of course?
Alearningaday.com – Finally
After months of plotting this move, I am happy to announce that ‘A Learning a Day’ has taken the next step – to go live on it’s own domain.
And that deserves a toast – to all of you who read, comment and encourage this blog as it is you who made this possible. Thank you!
‘The 50-50-90 rule: Anytime you have a 50-50 chance of getting something right, there’s a 90% probability you’ll get it wrong.’
10 tips for financial well being
1. Track your spending daily. You can use a program like Mint or simply design a spreadsheet. This will allow you to see where your money goes and discover ways to slash spending so that you can save more. I know that everyone gives this advice. There is a reason: it works.
2. Make the effort to pack your own lunch and prepare meals and snacks at home. This is not only thrifty, it’s also almost certainly healthier than buying food at restaurants and will help you stay fit and healthy long into your retirement.
3. Learn more about investing and the different options that you have. At a minimum you should understand all the basic terminology involved in investing and make it a point to know the fees involved in your retirement account.
4. Look for ways to increase your income. Even an extra $100 a month that you can throw into your retirement fund can have a big effect down the road, especially if you’re still in your 20s or early 30s.
5. Spend time visualizing your goals. This will make it easier for you to stick with your plans and stay committed to working towards your long term goals.
6. Be ruthless in removing clutter from your home. This might seem unrelated to saving for retirement, but clutter can weigh us down. When we are constantly seeking to remove clutter, it makes us less likely to spend money on objects that we don’t truly need or love. As a bonus, you can also make a little extra cash by selling items you no longer need or want.
7. Keep your home and vehicles well maintained. Maintenance is cheaper than repairs and will allow you to keep your car for many years before you replace it and could possibly help you sell your home for more money down the road.
8. Look for inexpensive forms of entertainment. My advice would be to be on the lookout for inexpensive or free activities in the community such as art exhibits and free concerts. Maintaining a rich network of social acquaintances can help you learn about new opportunities and feeling connected to your community will help increase your happiness. Happiness, in turn, makes it easier to find the motivation to work towards your goals.
9. Discuss your plans with your partner often. Make sure that you are both on the same page and are fully committed to working on things together. When one partner feels like their concerns aren’t being heard, they can become obstinate and sabotage the other’s efforts to save. Make sure that you both feel like you’re part of a team.
10. Don’t forget to have a little fun today. Constant deprivation is no way to live and the truth is none of us know what will happen in the future. Spend time every day focusing on working towards a good retirement, but don’t forget to spend most of the day living in the here and now. It might even make more sense to take a year off now to travel or work on a personal project and retire at the traditional age. Choose the timetable that makes the most sense for your own life.
‘Money can’t buy happiness, but it sure can buy lots of things that contribute mightily to happiness.’
From Mark Suster’s insightful article here.
Have a great day! :)






