is a common adage..and works well except for a few anomalies..
Sometimes people are stuck in a group not because its the best thing but hey..its best among whats available..
that’s generally the case with life as such because it takes a lot of will power and action to make sure we make the best options available to ourselves..
it is interesting though that sometimes in a group of friends you see one and you know what to expect from the other(both pleasant and unpleasant.. )
but at times, you look at someone and say, ah..maybe he/she could do better…
Like everything else, there are exceptions..
A Learning a Day 