comes an intensity that results in us taking things personally! It suddenly feels like its a personal dispute etc. That feeling is all too common where I’m concerned and more often than not, leads to varying degrees of conflict.
How do we avoid something like this? Something that I feel that may help is to think. Literally, THINK! Stop and think and do nothing else. Don’t talk – just think! till the other person asks whats up. Try and convey a feeling. eg: Feeling uncomfortable because of this agreement and I’m actively thinking as to how to solve this! Now, both you and the person/people who were locked in combat are together solving a problem together.
Well, this is just something that helped today but again, there are multiple ways of doing this. However, the common trend that I’ve observed is that it does help unite them towards something else..
A Learning a Day 